Searching inside out but there is something within me......

It's not about realizing things or learning them from our past experiences because we live our entire life on the spur of a second..... You have got an offer of a new job, your mind says " dude what are u doing... you have been waiting for this so just bang on", you get a marriage proposal where the guy tells u that he wish to spend his entire life with you because you are beautiful only for what you are and probably he won't find someone better than but no one thinks why at a certain age of life we regret on our decisions..... I was fed up of hearing this from every second person I came across and one day while I was spending some time with my self in the nature I realized that people say it because they expect more, they day dream more about the things which cannot happen and the time when they do not find things going the way they want to they start frustrating and blame other more important things in life for their desires not getting fulfilled... I tried to find out it's solution and across with one.... If all of us start finding happiness on every small thing of life with pure heart without demanding anything from anyone, without expecting things from others then probably we will stop regretting... And the day one actually finds out what he wants from him own self is the day he stop forming regrets and grudges......